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Guarantee you, that's what happened. Those people that check receipts will stop anyone at random. It's sad that some young black people think if they are questioned about anything, then it HAS to be racism.Bet you anything that they stopped him on the way out and asked for his receipt and thats what this is about.
Guarantee you, that's what happened. Those people that check receipts will stop anyone at random. It's sad that some young black people think if they are questioned about anything, then it HAS to be racism.
Alex hasn't caused a ton of problems. He may have slacked off on practice or something...but that doesn't make him a "ton of problems." Let's see how Graham, Merrick and Pulley do before we throw the baby out with the bath water.Denver is the only player from down there that has not caused a ton of problems. Jury is still out on Floyd.
Not sure why that tweet is so bad. I have never once been stopped at wal Mart. Not one single time.
No but some insecurity seems appropriate.Been stopped several times at Walmart. At Sam's they stop you every time and look at your receipt and check it for what is your shopping basket. Last time I flew on an airplane, I got called out and patted down and rescanned. Do I have grounds for a lawsuit?
Danny some changes only come with generational passing. As far as the store employee I'd ask if being racist was a requirement.I know JoJo makes some really bad moves on social media at times, but I'd be curious to know exactly what happened before commenting on it. I did see a post from another player's mother tonight that led me to believe her son had also experienced something racist tonight, so like I said I'd have to know all the details.
Kind of on the same topic, here's something that happened to me just yesterday at Lowe's:
I'm trying to plumb a bathroom sink at home and I have no idea what I'm doing, so I asked an employee (a white man who I would guess is in his 60s) for some help and he gave me a useful shortcut and it was exactly what I needed to finish the job.
He then said "Some might call it ------ rigged but it'll work." All I could come up with for a reply was, "Wow dude, you realize it's 2015 right?" He laughed and said, "Ohhh, come on now, I'm just being funny." I said, "I know, but if you say that to somebody who's married to a black person I bet they're not going to be as nice as I am. Appreciate the help though," and walked away. Been thinking all night if I let him off the hook too easy. If I report him, he probably loses his job and then we'd have one more capable, yet worthless, human being sitting at home and depending on those of us who are capable, respectable and hard-working. Just an old man who's stuck in his ways and will never change.
Curious to know how some of y'all would have reacted to this. I'm a pretty laid-back, non-confrontational guy. I wish I wasn't so laid back at times. I've got friends, Trey for example, who will put anyone on blast anytime, anywhere, if they're not doing a good job or if they're just plain stupid. I've learned to appreciate that way of doing things in order to get a point across. Maybe I should give it a shot next time and see how it feels.
When you see a blatant racist act or remark, it's good to at least let them know you don't appreciate it. I don't know if getting the guy fired is appropriate...but at least letting him know, like you did, that it's not ok to say that.I know JoJo makes some really bad moves on social media at times, but I'd be curious to know exactly what happened before commenting on it. I did see a post from another player's mother tonight that led me to believe her son had also experienced something racist tonight, so like I said I'd have to know all the details.
Kind of on the same topic, here's something that happened to me just yesterday at Lowe's:
I'm trying to plumb a bathroom sink at home and I have no idea what I'm doing, so I asked an employee (a white man who I would guess is in his 60s) for some help and he gave me a useful shortcut and it was exactly what I needed to finish the job.
He then said "Some might call it ------ rigged but it'll work." All I could come up with for a reply was, "Wow dude, you realize it's 2015 right?" He laughed and said, "Ohhh, come on now, I'm just being funny." I said, "I know, but if you say that to somebody who's married to a black person I bet they're not going to be as nice as I am. Appreciate the help though," and walked away. Been thinking all night if I let him off the hook too easy. If I report him, he probably loses his job and then we'd have one more capable, yet worthless, human being sitting at home and depending on those of us who are capable, respectable and hard-working. Just an old man who's stuck in his ways and will never change. Maybe the awkwardness of our exchange will teach him to at least not bring it to work with him.
Curious to know how some of y'all would have reacted to this. I'm a pretty laid-back, non-confrontational guy. I wish I wasn't so laid back at times. I've got friends, Trey for example, who will put anyone on blast anytime, anywhere, if they're not doing a good job or if they're just plain stupid. I've learned to appreciate that way of doing things in order to get a point across. Maybe I should give it a shot next time and see how it feels.
When you see a blatant racist act or remark, it's good to at least let them know you don't appreciate it. I don't know if getting the guy fired is appropriate...but at least letting him know, like you did, that it's not ok to say that.
I was once at a movie theater, and there were probably only about 20 people about to watch the movie I was going to watch...including two young black girls. Before the movie started, a security guard came in and started scanning the theater and then walked up the stairs and came down the row the two black girls were on. He said, "I need to see your tickets." He didn't ask any of the white people in the theater...just the two black girls. After he checked their tickets, he left and they both started crying.
I went out and found the manager and he got the guard and I asked him why he singled out those two girls. He said he was told by the ticket taker that two black kids (didn't even know the gender) had snuck past him and went into one of the 16 theaters. So...the guard was going from screen to screen, and when he'd see black people, he'd ask to see their tickets. I told him, "you can't just go from room to room and only look at black people's tickets. You'll make every innocent person feel horrible and every other person in that room will instantly think they've done something wrong. You're gonna have to check everyone's ticket...or no one's. Those girls are so embarrassed that they're in there crying."
The manager agreed it was the wrong way to handle the situation and went and talked to the girls...but the security guard still didn't understand what the problem was.
Some people just don't get it. If something even remotely like that happened to JoJo tonight, I hate it for him. I can't imagine what that would feel like. But...I still wish he wouldn't put it out on Twitter.
So, this person is now worthless for using an antiquated colloquial term? Hate the sin, not the sinner.I know JoJo makes some really bad moves on social media at times, but I'd be curious to know exactly what happened before commenting on it. I did see a post from another player's mother tonight that led me to believe her son had also experienced something racist tonight, so like I said I'd have to know all the details.
Kind of on the same topic, here's something that happened to me just yesterday at Lowe's:
I'm trying to plumb a bathroom sink at home and I have no idea what I'm doing, so I asked an employee (a white man who I would guess is in his 60s) for some help and he gave me a useful shortcut and it was exactly what I needed to finish the job.
He then said "Some might call it ------ rigged but it'll work." All I could come up with for a reply was, "Wow dude, you realize it's 2015 right?" He laughed and said, "Ohhh, come on now, I'm just being funny." I said, "I know, but if you say that to somebody who's married to a black person I bet they're not going to be as nice as I am. Appreciate the help though," and walked away. Been thinking all night if I let him off the hook too easy. If I report him, he probably loses his job and then we'd have one more capable, yet worthless, human being sitting at home and depending on those of us who are capable, respectable and hard-working. Just an old man who's stuck in his ways and will never change. Maybe the awkwardness of our exchange will teach him to at least not bring it to work with him.
Curious to know how some of y'all would have reacted to this. I'm a pretty laid-back, non-confrontational guy. I wish I wasn't so laid back at times. I've got friends, Trey for example, who will put anyone on blast anytime, anywhere, if they're not doing a good job or if they're just plain stupid. I've learned to appreciate that way of doing things in order to get a point across. Maybe I should give it a shot next time and see how it feels.
So, this person is now worthless for using an antiquated colloquial term? Hate the sin, not the sinner.
I hear what you're saying and appreciate your feelings here. I think your story is a good example of the difference between reckless speech and hateful speech IMO. I'm not excusing what the guy said (we don't use language like that in our home), but I don't think it means he's a lost cause and worthless. You didn't think so either, or you wouldn't have made an effort to correct him.@Turbo Buffalo, I will tell you I like the "hate the sin, not the sinner" phrase and it's one I was brought up on. I think my use of 'worthless' here is probably the wrong one to use, but just trying to prove a point at how frustrating it is to witness completely reckless actions like that right here in our back yard.
Current Hog Kevin Richardson and I were talking about stuff like this the other day. He saw something from Harrison, Arkansas (like we've all seen, a billboard sign with racist comments on it) and that's what sparked the conversation. He wasn't as much offended by it as he was surprised at how stupid people can be. It's not just here, it's everywhere. It just sucks that it is here.
Knowing the kids that snuck in are black and checking a white person ticket doesn't make sense. If the ticket taker saw which theater the kids went in is the only way tickets should have been checked.When you see a blatant racist act or remark, it's good to at least let them know you don't appreciate it. I don't know if getting the guy fired is appropriate...but at least letting him know, like you did, that it's not ok to say that.
I was once at a movie theater, and there were probably only about 20 people about to watch the movie I was going to watch...including two young black girls. Before the movie started, a security guard came in and started scanning the theater and then walked up the stairs and came down the row the two black girls were on. He said, "I need to see your tickets." He didn't ask any of the white people in the theater...just the two black girls. After he checked their tickets, he left and they both started crying.
I went out and found the manager and he got the guard and I asked him why he singled out those two girls. He said he was told by the ticket taker that two black kids (didn't even know the gender) had snuck past him and went into one of the 16 theaters. So...the guard was going from screen to screen, and when he'd see black people, he'd ask to see their tickets. I told him, "you can't just go from room to room and only look at black people's tickets. You'll make every innocent person feel horrible and every other person in that room will instantly think they've done something wrong. You're gonna have to check everyone's ticket...or no one's. Those girls are so embarrassed that they're in there crying."
The manager agreed it was the wrong way to handle the situation and went and talked to the girls...but the security guard still didn't understand what the problem was.
Some people just don't get it. If something even remotely like that happened to JoJo tonight, I hate it for him. I can't imagine what that would feel like. But...I still wish he wouldn't put it out on Twitter.