You think it's funny to mock Christianity in general over an issue like this but it really just makes you look ignorant and shallow. The thread isn't over and the comment and your reply wasn't funny or original.HA!
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You think it's funny to mock Christianity in general over an issue like this but it really just makes you look ignorant and shallow. The thread isn't over and the comment and your reply wasn't funny or original.
Christians deal with considerable issues just like any other person. The issue is the monsters that use their religion to prey on others. It's the worst sort of person and sadly, many do just that. And to compound the issue, many religious people choose to be ignorant and blindly follow those that put themselves on a pedestal as holy rollers and uber-holy
The Duggars are on record saying that not only did they send Josh for manual labor & "christian counseling" but after he came back to the family and turned himself in to the police - both he and all of the girls got professional counseling from a legally certified individual. So to say that they just did the "manual labor christian counseling" is factually incorrect. They did get Josh a professional shrink so that argument is just untrue. I'm not saying that they got it 100% right - but they were far from negligent
For the record, I've never seen the show and don't really care about the Duggars - except that they are Christian brothers and sisters. You can believe or not in the power of Christ to transform an individual or not - but the fact is, they got Josh christian counseling and professional (non-christian affiliated) help. That would be good enough for me if he was cleared - by the professional - which he was.
Not yelling at anyone.I didn't say it. I just quoted him. You're yelling at the wrong person.
. . . that Jim Bob Duggar sent son Josh to a "close friend" for a lecture after Josh "confessed to molestimg his sisters, and said friend is now serving a 56 year sentence for child pornography?
And that the cult that the Duggars follow for their home schooling (ATI) is led by one Bob Gothard ( age 80), who surrounds himself with very attractive young women and who is suspected of assaulting more than thirty of them over the years?
Shades of Carcosa.
Gothard's teaching materials tell girls that if they feel offended, assaulted, whatever, they need to soul search and ask themselves what they were wearing, did they smile at a boy, etc. This makes me more than angry.
I have been vaguely aware of the Duggars for years, since I am from Springdale. I didn't know until a few months ago that they have (had?) a reality show. People actually watched that crap?
I'll agree that if something comes out that suggests that their attempts to get Josh help &/or reporting his wrongdoing to the authorities were disingenuous, they should definitely be held liable - and in that case, I would not defend their actions, whatsoever. However, if what they say is true and the only "acts" were inappropriate touching on outside of clothes and once or twice under clothes - and the girls had no idea that they had been inappropriately touched - coupled with the fact that he reported himself to his parents and the authorities - they should be given the benefit of the doubt. Never watched their show and don't care to, but I think they should get benefit of the doubt until someone can prove that the situation played out differently than what they said
The Duggars are on record saying that not only did they send Josh for manual labor & "christian counseling" but after he came back to the family and turned himself in to the police - both he and all of the girls got professional counseling from a legally certified individual. So to say that they just did the "manual labor christian counseling" is factually incorrect. They did get Josh a professional shrink so that argument is just untrue. I'm not saying that they got it 100% right - but they were far from negligent
For the record, I've never seen the show and don't really care about the Duggars - except that they are Christian brothers and sisters. You can believe or not in the power of Christ to transform an individual or not - but the fact is, they got Josh christian counseling and professional (non-christian affiliated) help. That would be good enough for me if he was cleared - by the professional - which he was.
You can't be serious. You would just throw your son to the wolves if he came and told you that he had been having those thoughts and/or had touched some girls outside of their clothing while they slept? What the hell kind of parent are you? He did not rape anyone - he was a boy going through puberty. They got him out of the house and got him help. Things like this happen to lots of families these days. Because they had a son that did this, should they have given up on the values they believed in and stopped striving to be better people? That is not hypocrisy. People act like they should just go live in some hole and not stay true to their convictions, just because they had a son with some issues.
I would agree with you if he had raped them, exposed himself to them, or gone further than "touching for a few seconds in their sleep on top of their clothes" and according to the Duggars that only happened a couple of times. The girls he "molestested" were not even aware that he had molested them. To say that he is a sociopathic pedophile is going way past what the facts of the case indicate.
Man with respect, if your son molests 2 of his sisters, and your course of action is to send him to work construction for the summer. Then follow that up with bringing him back into the home which results in 3 more little girls being molested one of them 5 years old. I see that as a pretty disingenuous attempt to get your son help, and protect your daughters...that's just my view. They should have got him real professional help immediately...no questions asked, if they had 3 of those girls may not have been violated.
Just to be clear. The Duggars did NOT voluntarily turn Josh in in 2006. Someone called the ASP hotline. Police report here:
http://m.imgur.com/a/uePgT
I have read elsewhere that in the fall of 2006, the family was scheduled to be on "Oprah." Someone who knew about this sent her company an email about it, and then that company contacted Arkansas DHS.
That's how the whole thing came to the attention of authorities.
Some of my Springdale relatives say there have been rumors about this up there for years.
And hey, just like any other OT on here. You don't have to read it.
ITT we learn that @RazorbackForever is a Chester who lightly tosses aside the idea of a 15 year old adolescent molesting a young girl. That shit is whack and I can't believe you've gotten off as easily as you have so far. I have a five year old step-daughter and I usually consider threads like these so much faux anger, but this guy belongs in prison and his parents covered it up to keep him out, plain and simple.
I have no doubt that I would turn in a family member for a similar offense. If you don't, you're guilty by association. And if you make a huge fuss about homosexuals while your oldest son is committing incestual rape, well, I hope there is a hell so you can burn in it. The fact that anyone is defending them scares me and quite frankly I have nothing but disgust for that viewpoint.
You can resort to name-calling and can stand on your faulty moral pedestal all you want - that said, if you consider what the Duggar's boy did as incestual rape, you certainly have that right. The fact that you seem to ignore SEVERAL MAJOR POINTS OF THE CASE: The first being that he was a juvenile and the girls were not even aware that they had been molested, the second being that Josh told his parents and asked for help, himself, the third being that the Duggars got he and the girls professional help, and the fourth that he was cleared by the institution that he received certified counseling from.
Don't throw the baby out with the bath water. I believe in the power of prayer and the power of Christ. I believe that people deserve second chances and while I get that you seem to think that Josh Duggar should be in prison for life for his actions as a kid - I certainly don't have to agree with you (and for that matter, won't lose any sleep at night because some over-critical, self-righteous hack disgusts my position on the issue)
Your MAJOR POINTS are messed up. Allow me to set you straight. First, to say it wasn't rape or molestation because the girls were asleep is like saying if you give a female a date-rape drug and she doesn't remember the rape, it didn't happen. It did happen. Second, just because he was a juvenile it doesn't make it okay. What 14-year-old- does not know it is wrong to fondle his sisters, especially one as young as 4 or 5, as many as five girls? He would be subject to the law if his parents had not covered up the crime. Third, it was only after Josh went to his parents for the third time that they sought professional help. Previously, they sent him to (a.) a state trooper who is now serving 56 years for kiddy porn, and then to (b) a counselor who ran an institution where he "groomed" children for sex. And fourth, I don't know what kind of institution cleared him; professional psychologists do not do that. Finally, as a Christian it is not up to me (or you) to judge others. I shall not call you "self-righteous" although you did that to the previous poster. God will be the judge of this. That does not mean I have to approve of any of this behavior or forget what he did. You have given all the usual excuses used by predators - he was young, the girls didn't know, God has forgiven him. Please stop minimizing this; it makes you part of the problem.
So you agree with and accept the rest of my post? Thanks. No need to call me names. I'm just a poor sinner who seeks forgiveness and Grace.Lol that I'm part of the problem. Thanks for the holy speech, reverend
So you agree with and accept the rest of my post? Thanks. No need to call me names. I'm just a poor sinner who seeks forgiveness and Grace.
That's probably a good thing for you to stop digging while you still can crawl out of the hole you dug.No we don't agree on any of it. I'm done discussing this topic. My views are conveyed with previous posts
You would just throw your son to the wolves
Your side of this argument is disgusting. You are defending a rapist. You're a toad.No we don't agree on any of it. I'm done discussing this topic. My views are conveyed with previous posts
. . . that Jim Bob Duggar sent son Josh to a "close friend" for a lecture after Josh "confessed to molestimg his sisters, and said friend is now serving a 56 year sentence for child pornography?
And that the cult that the Duggars follow for their home schooling (ATI) is led by one Bob Gothard ( age 80), who surrounds himself with very attractive young women and who is suspected of assaulting more than thirty of them over the years?
Shades of Carcosa.
Gothard's teaching materials tell girls that if they feel offended, assaulted, whatever, they need to soul search and ask themselves what they were wearing, did they smile at a boy, etc. This makes me more than angry.
I have been vaguely aware of the Duggars for years, since I am from Springdale. I didn't know until a few months ago that they have (had?) a reality show. People actually watched that crap?
No. First, Josh never gave a statement in the official investigation. Jim Bob wouldn't let him. The investigating officer's name was Hignite. This was in 2006, after a tip,was made to,the ASP hotline.I only read your post, so others below may have corrected you, but it was the law enforcement officer who happened to be on duty who took Josh's statement that went to jail for molestation. Not the person they sent Josh to for counseling. Not getting involved with the politics of this or your other assertions, just want to make sure that one thing is clarified.
this isn't true. Every source out there says that the cop who is now in prison was a family friend of the duggars.I only read your post, so others below may have corrected you, but it was the law enforcement officer who happened to be on duty who took Josh's statement that went to jail for molestation. Not the person they sent Josh to for counseling. Not getting involved with the politics of this or your other assertions, just want to make sure that one thing is clarified.
No we don't agree on any of it. I'm done discussing this topic. My views are conveyed with previous posts
Wow. I just took the time to watch this. I think you are one of the few who got the point of my OP.